Are You Making These Mistakes With Women?

Omg I came across this artical. Finally realise Y "Ah soon" (Me) never gets a girlfriend. Hee wat to know why? Read on.

I have almost all the mistake in my life(mentioned below). However, for me to correct these mistakes, I would rather stay alone(Single). Because most of the correction will resulted in me losing the morals of life, or lose my true self along the way. If I follow this article, everything I do to a girl wounld be just a lie. They will only realise that after marriage and probably after giving birth. =p

True that gals are more powerful than guys. They hear better, see futher they understand better than guys. They can even live longer than guys.

"THE TEN MOST DANGEROUS MISTAKE YOU PROBABLY MAKE WITH WOMEN - AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT...."

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women- And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes…

-By David DeAngelo, Author Of "Double Your Dating"

MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A "Nice Guy"

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"… but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What's going on here?

It's actually very simple…

Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT… but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To
"Convince Her To Like You"

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like… but she's just notinterested?

Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you… YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them… EVER.

Don't get me wrong here.

You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her…

MISTAKE #4: Trying To "Buy" Her
Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It's only NATURAL when this happens…

That's right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing
"How You Feel" Too Early In
The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE

An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast… and can't control themselves.

Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.

There's a much better way…

MISTAKE #6: Not "Getting" How
Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how…

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started… because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a certain age.

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet…

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea…

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over… Women aren't attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women

Now I'm going to blow your mind…

A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating…

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything.

If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up… and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman… from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.

It's New Year's Day

Today is "Chu Er" - (second day of Chinese New Year). As usual this year round nothing special. Alone at home doing nothing, hee so went for a moive with my relatives at E!Hub - "INKHEART". Hmmm I think it was not a very good show compared to similar movies like harry potter. But anyway hee better then nothing at all right?



Yesterday, was at Wendy's house. She called in Lion Dance to be performed at her place. Hee really loud and making the place messy with oranges skin, vegetables, and this year round even pineapples. haha but it is belive to bring luck. they also very really creative, formed words with the oranges provided. I think the lion troup must know not even Kung Fu but need also knowledge in arts as well haha. The way they arrange the oranges and pineapple, really artistic lor.


After the lion dance, I was invited by Elmo to Clark Quak, we were there with 2 other gals Crystalbelle and Janice (all sec friends).... lol again pub. =.=" I dun like it. lol end up like I spoiling their mood drinking orange juice. haha even the waiter laughed at me. Nearly had a good round of sparring with him. lol but the bouncer bigger size than me haha....


Me and Jancie only stayed only for a while. Then after the "Lunar Pub" followed Jancie to another place then head back home in a wat I think was a unique cab. Hee the cabby driver use his own pocket money to fix a Touch-Screen monitor which allows customer to play the song they like. Mmmm I think is very interesting. Or am I "sua gu".... Ha ha

After reaching home, again played games till 6am plus. Haiz 3rd night liao. Just cannot really sleep. Was it's the addiction to games (Warcraft) or is it something else.... Lol I also dun know.... =.="

Mmmm The reunion Dinner

This year wee had a very early reunion dinner haha dinner at 5pm. lol At a restaurant in East Point. Waa there is good anf bad la. Mmm good is the food is served hot and fresh. Bad is very rush lor... like chase you to eat fast fast cos next group coming in. lol


And after the dinner, me, my sis and mum went to florist to shop for flower. Lol Wendy tell my mum die die must get fresh flowers for me and my sis. To bring good luck and more important get attached.... lol really sooo "mi xing". I dun really mind they say must buy "Tao Hua" in the end I buy a "Lian Hua Bamboo" haha. Attached or not really so important meh? Ke ke I have better things in life. To stay fit and healthy. =)

Happy Chinese New Year

Hee today at home did spring cleaning for my room. Lol lazy brother never help. So I did it all by myself. I thought I was simple. lol but I spent like 5 - 6 hours cleaning my room only. Ha ha maybe I too "Jie Pi" like army style everything want clean clean. I wipe even the dust stuck at the corner of the room. (lol dunno lie there how long liao).


And best is, due to my sensitive nose. I'm like sneezing all the way. Lol, cleaning and sneezing plus music playing sentimental songs. Ha ha thought of it, kind of fun... Packing the stuff also brings back memories. Things that I thought was gone long ago suddenly appear right before me. Ha ha things like Angel's "Love letter" that we used to exchange in secondary schools days. Cheryl birthday gift. 21st birthday photos. And even taekwondo photos where we took at bhcc.... Mmmm miss all my friends....




Things that I still kept such as birthday cards la, letters, haha even a diary I wrote last time... haha reading it just brings back sweets memories. =)

The Steam Boat at Chong Qing....

Yesterday was an enjoyable evening. People attended are:

1.Jovi
2.Mark Tay
3.Sherman
4.Jia Hao
5.Wei Qun
6.Shermain
7.Jo-an
8. Mike Quek
9. Mike Tan
10. Bruce Lee
11. Ms Tay
12. Adura Tan
13. Lorraine
14. Gwynnie
15. Linus
16. Alan Tan
17. Vikki Ang
18. Yi Sheng
19. Li Jie
20. Me
21. Wen Jie

Haha I dun really kinna of like steamboat. And I think seafood very difficult to eat. lol after the dinner session 9 of us went to watch movie "Ombak 2" lol the fighting scene really good. But the ending a bit err..... haha anyway good to have friends around. And thank you Adura for coming, like see her only 4 times a year.(during grading) lol.

Red Cliff II..... And Topic on Jervel =.="

Just came back from Toa Payoh with Gorden, Shermain, Wei Qun, Darren and Derren. Was ticked by Gorden to movie. Tomorrow still have to wake up early to go temple to do voluntary work. lol. I still think Red Cliff 1 was better.

First, Gordon bluf me that tickets(@ Golden Village, Bishan) were already booked for me online liao. (Which I was relectuant to go for the movie so late at night). Then upon reaching there, after I buy my nachos Combo then he tell me no more tickets liao. (He did not book online, he assume that there will be tickets.) dotz....

Ok then we go Toa Payoh to watch that show. at 11:50 =.=" watch till 2am plus.

Best thing is they mentioned Jervel to me again =.=". Trying so hard these few weeks to forget certain stuff by going to temple and going out shopping, movie etc to peace my mind. Dotz.... It may seem like I dun care about Jervel in front of them (But the blow three weeks ago still hurt k), certain questions are very sensitive one ok. =.="

I've only got rejected by gals twice in my life so far. Frist was Cheryl and 2nd - Jervel. (To all my friends tonight: "I really appreciate your help, but if you want to know more and make me remember things I shouldn't. Mmmm pls PAY for my movie tickets or do more donations to temples - To peace my mind k =p)

Ha ha anyway they tried very hard to teach me how a get a gal. Ha ha had so much fun, Gorden suggested that 1st week must hold hands, 2nd week must hug, 3rd week must kiss.... haha I thought only can be heard from radio. But today I can't believe I hear it from him. lol Shermain must have been "Chi Duo Fu" a lot. haha (Not for me to comment)

Anyway to me, I respect myself and will put others before myself. Certain morals must come into place also ma. Hee never mind if I dun have a girlfriend for the rest of my life. I'll still live my life to the fullest. Follow the certain teachings of Buddhism and Taoism. Hommmmmmmm..... Ha ha ha.

Taoist Federation Youth Group (TFYG)

Hee Yesterday evening just had the first meeting with the committee. So eye opening, The chairman, Aaron Tan, I think around the same age as me. But really can tell that he's experienced from the way he talked.

The committee was a rather small one about 13 people attend only, including Lixuan(Liyan's sis) and Kwang Tong. Hee Kwang Tong is Head Secretary in the board. and Li Xuan was chosen as the asst. Secretary. Hee for me I'm just a sub-group member. Hee but that's really fine for me. Focus Poomse Committee better. lol.

They briefed the whole year planning. Mmmm sound so interesting to me. Haa going to China, Xi An during June. Mmm if got subsidise for the trip I think I will go. Ha Ha got China obtain the "secret relics" and get enlighten also not bad ya.... Mmmm

And this weekend, will be going to a temple at Toa Payoh, to give out "ang baos" for old folks. Mmm, I see my life more meaningful by doing good deed. Ha ha I think do more good deed, will be blessed in someway or another. =)

Hee anyone interested to do some voluntary work can contact me ya. =) Cheers....

San Qing Gong and movie at JP - "Seven Pounds"

Today, went to help out at San Qing Gong - (Kwang Tong's Office - The Temple where Singapore Taoist Federation is located); it's sort of newspaper collection and old clothing collection from the residents living nearby. Ha ha, but the thing is, the temple is located opposite an industrial area, not much people living there lor, =.=" for the whole of 6 hours, we only got 4 people came to donate. haha instead, we spent our time there helping Lixuan (Li Yan's Sister and also KT asst.) doing some pasting of CNY cards.

And today I've finally joined their Youth Taoist Group. Ha ha guess it's fate ba. After the past 2 years of rejecting Kwang Tong of joining the group - which like grow from 6 members to today 70plus in 2 years. Ha ha for me instead of being the pioneer group. I became the 70th plus plus plus member. Lol.

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After the volunteering work, I went from Bedok all the way to Jurong Point to watch a movie. Nothing in mind, so choose the show, "Seven Pounds". The show I think not meant for ppl with low IQ. haha Cos totally dunno what the show trying to say until the last 10 - 15mins of the show. You must also have a lot of patience to watch the show till that far lor. Ha ha. But really a meaningful show. Will Smith killed himself to save 7 other people which waited desperately for human organs to survive. Mmmm nice for boring people haha.

Happy New Year to You my friends..... 2009

Hello Happy New year to you first. =) hee hee. Hope you all will have a great year ahead. Same goes to me hopefully. =.="

It's has been near to 2 weeks, but still thinking about "You know who" .... haha trying to get myself occupied with taekwondo so dun think so much, helping Vikki in all sorts of demonstration. Hee she wants us to do "High moment stuff" and as usual kanna "Fan" by my so call "Wife" in Taekwondo. haha you know who also. Lol.

Anyway, things had not been going so well for me these few weeks. Mmmm I think I havn't found my PEACE after all the visits to the temple around Singapore. (I think about 6 liao) lol with my grandparents too. They treat me fishsoup. Mmmm like a decay I've not been sitting down eating alone with them liao. A bit happy as well as sad, they really grew old le. (I've sent both my ah ma and ah gong to 3 temples to prey for good fortune for the whole family).

I hope I can find my peace in the year 2009 and to all my friends out there. Be happy and stay Happy. A big laughter is the cure to thousand of illness. So laugh out loud. Hee but make sure at the right time. hee hee (IMH Nearby too).... Best Wishes!!!!! Mucks......